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Friday, 7 November 2014

Head Space Daily Words...

Bonfire night was a real event when I was a kid. I can remember many 5th of Novembers, freezing in the cold and wet of a local park, watching sodden fireworks splutter miserably, whilst a huge bonfire crackled with such intensity, that to go within a hundred metres would have melted the eyebrows from your face. It felt like one of those very British endurance tests that we all love – like camping, or monopoly.

These days, Halloween has taken over from Guy Fawkes as the Big One for autumn – especially for the kids. My eldest son can’t comprehend that we even used to make a big deal out of November 5th - its historical significance completely forgotten – and its associated weekend fireworks displays. Personally, I’m not into getting kitted out as a freak, ghoul or monster and I don’t really get adults doing the fancy dress thing, but that’s me.

The kids love Halloween for the role pay, the fear factor, being out and about late at night and of course, the sweets.  The huge bucket loads of sweets.  It really is a weird interaction between child and homeowner. Child wearing mask and cape, or similarly spooky costume asks “trick or treat?” Homeowner replies, “help yourself,” offering a bag of confectionary, to which child takes a sweet, wishes homeowner “Happy Halloween,” then turns and leaves. Is Halloween meant to be happy? It seems like a contradiction in terms. Is dressing like a corpse or an axe murderer really something to be happy about?

My own childhood memories of Halloween are of apple bobbing. Thrusting my head deep into a metal tub full of freezing water, with several apples floating on top, hoping to push one to the bottom of the tub and force my teeth into its ripe flesh and then victoriously resurface with an apple clasped defiantly in my mouth. In the sense of not wanting to catch hypothermia in ridiculous circumstances, things have definitely changed for the better.

The best thing about bonfire night was that it brought people together. We experienced the bad weather, the toffee apples and the dud fireworks together. It was a shared experience. Halloween on the other hand, seems to me, a largely cynical means for kids to obtain sweets, pure and simple. The main motive is greed - to stuff your face with candy. Again, that’s me but it may well be another one of those reflections on society, where we are less interested in community and more concerned about ourselves. I feel I can’t blame David Cameron for this one though. Then again, eating as many sweets as you can, whilst dressed as a zombie is probably a pretty cool thing to do as a ten year old.



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